CI: Remove memo program from downstream job (#3804)
#### Problem
The SPL programs are in the process of being moved to program-specific
repos. Memo now exists in https://github.com/solana-program/memo, and
there's a PR to remove it from SPL at
https://github.com/solana-labs/solana-program-library/pull/7535. If we
merge that, however, the downstream jobs will immediately fail.
#### Summary of changes
Remove all references to the memo program in downstream CI.
(cherry picked from commit 4bdea4619a8842fae1958e7e2c5b7052d86c25b6)
Co-authored-by: Jon C <me@jonc.dev>
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